World Came Crashing Down

[Albuquerque]

Hopeless,

I'm sorry you find yourself here. No one can tell you what the right thing to do is.

HOWEVER.....

REACTING to a situation is much different that RESPONDING to a situation.

REACTING involves emotion and passion and often includes snap decisions.

RESPONDING to a situation involves taking a step back, evaluating the situation for what it truly is, and then determining what the best step for you is.

I dont want to give up but I already gave him his seperation

If you already know you don't want this, then why are you doing it? Are you reacting or responding? Only you can answer this. But this is not a decision to be made lightly. If you have doubts, you should reassess. It doesn't matter what you've "already done". It only matters what you do moving forward.

If this is an MLC, it could be years before you may see any positive progress and with that, there are no guarantees. The question you need to ask yourself is are you willing to outlast the MLC. There is no right or wrong answer. Only you can decide.