Having a hard time... II

[Denver_2010]

I agree. Man, I don't know. I think that I would tell you to just stay dark for a good while. It has NOT been that long since you were begging, pleading etc. and probably making her feel that she couldn't get away quick enough. Please don't take offense to that, I did the same thing in November. I'm just saying, it hasn't been that long since you WERE the person that she wanted to D. It is going to take her a good while to forget that. Darkness gives the S time to STOP thinking about the negatives and BEGIN to remember the positives. It can also be a distraction to her thinking about the the D and the negatives... the distraction is that her mind begins to think "why hasn't Next been contacting me? Wonder what he is up to?" instead of "I can't wait to be D'd from Next."

I don't know. JMO.

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Denver