Oh yes....I 110% agree with trusting and MissH.

Don't you question this relationship yourself?

Sun, don't let your desire to someday have intimacy and commitment from a man blind you to the fact that this particular man is NOT interested in either. If YOU loved and respected HIM? Come on....it goes both ways. He's cake eating big time, and I bet there's a part of you that already knows that, but is afraid to admit it to yourself. You are very much worthy of having commitment, love and intimacy in your life. Don't sell yourself short or let anyone else tell you "if you really do..". If HE really does....then he needs to step up to the plate, or let you go.

Yes this all does sound harsh...but I think you already realize this on your own, without any of us saying it. And if you do...ponder on that fact.

I wish you all wonderful things Sun. You deserve them.


Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible