Hey 2Step! Actually, I'm pretty sure that I patented the 'actual conversation' approach to doing updates back on December 23rd or so! Just kiddin man!
I think that your conversations with your W are just great! There is no way that this woman is over you or your M. Certainly that's not a promise from Denver that everything will be just fine, but I definitely think that you have a lot to be hopeful about!
It's also fantastic that you're doing the DB coach with W tomorrow. She keeps asking you what your expectations are, but I'm beginning to wonder what her's are! She's awfully focused on expectations... maybe she's been asking herself what her own expectations are?? I wouldn't ask her though!!
I know that you'd feel much better about your sitch if you W was not half way across the country, but I'd give my left arm to have the consistent quality contacts that you have with your W and/or to have my W agree to a DB session.
Keep pluggin away and let us know how tomorrow goes!
BITS! Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce