AchingMan, you aren't the first man to withhold something from me and you probably won't be the last. Please, guard your male secrets....huddle, snicker and laugh and learn how to build your confidence. Do it all in the way you men routinely do it....by shutting us women out. If there is one thing women are used to, it's men keeping secrets from us. Yep, God forbid us women be allowed to learn it from a male perspective. You guys might night have an excuse for crawling off to your caves anymore if that happened. Cathy
