Quick Question: A couple of times this week, my wife has, in passing, said that she wishes she remembered to do her laundry over the weekend, She has to wash her own hospital scrubs, and on Monday she only wore her whitecoat. Then these past two days, she's been wearing her school-provided scrubs. Finally my question to y'all is: Should I just help her do her load of laundry?
Let her do her own laundry. She clearly does not expect this to be the "man's responsibility", so if she wants you to do her laundry, she needs to earn it by treating you better. You wont get brownie points, you will lose respect.
Some homework if you choose to accept it...
1. Research: Why women like decisive men, and how to be more decisive
2. Research: How to set boundaries in your relationship
3. Take a look at my signature. Which of the three do you most identify with?
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
