D18 came home for Christmas break and it was just me and the kids for the holidays.
H did not call her or see her at all, and he did not see the other two kids at all over the holiday break.
H did converse with D18 a few times since she has gone back to school and according to D18, she says her dad sounded the best she has ever heard him sound as he has quit drinking, told her how he is reading the Bible all the time.
He has told all of the kids this.
As for me...he has absolutely nothing to do with me...he is still unemployed, and just sits at ow's all day. He does not contact me and if anything goes wrong with the kids such as emergency room, etc., he does not respond to me at all.
He called S20 the other day and said the apartment people want him to either get his car fixed or get rid of it because it just sits there and does not run. H asked S if he wanted the car. I told S to think about this, that it is not his responsibility to get that car out of there and furthermore, he cannot afford a car which is true. So H and ow will have to figure this one out on their own, not us.
My MIL took a turn for the worse in the past week, not eating, not drinking, and became unresponsive. Not sure how much longer she has.
Of course, I attempted to call H to let him know but he never did answer his phone for me so I did nothing.
Pretty pathetic.
I am still working, still in the house (trial modification begins March 1st) and all of the kids are in school full time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
