Reconciliation is very much in the my W's control right now.
Don't fool yourself, it takes two, Denver, not saying it to be mean, but a new realtionship with your wife soley built on her terms? In a few years and she'll be posting here. Food for thought.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK