VS, sorry for where you are. Don't reach out right now. I know that is a difficult place to be but you have to let him miss you. You have to let him realize what he's giving up.

If you keep pursuing, all he will see is a nag and justify his reason for leaving.

I let mine go and find out that life isn't as great as she thought it was.

It was hard but I had to do it. Keep yourself busy so you don't think about it - it will make the time go much faster.

Keep coming to these boards too. There are some great people in the EXACT same sitch as you and can help when you are near the ledge.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE