2step: Yup, i have finally got it through my head that "crying" is very un-attractive to W. I always wore my heart on my sleeve, but i need to do a 180 on that. Yup, i did my crying in front of her for the first 2 days after dropped the D bomb. Now I either sound strong on the phone or at the very least nonchalant.

My family tries to convince me to leave the US and that my W might realize her mistake and miss me once i am out the country. But i don't buy that. I'd rather be closer that i am there when she really needs me smile


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...