I have done everything wrong....

[islander]

I don't think I will contact OM, but I do think about it. FIL did not talk to OM today. He talked to one of W friends who helped her move. W friend was shocked to find out that we did not have serious problems, and that lack of affection was her main complaint (don't know what W tells people).

MIL and FIL are upset with her for the way she has turned their back on them, is not concerned about her D Well being, as well as the fact that she walked out on her M without working on it. This is W second marriage and she left her first M in much the same way as she is leaving ours.