Stay cool and calm. The anticipation is the worse part! The MC I couldn't afford gave me free advice. "Agree with them and watch them come to your defense. You can't argue with someone who doesn't argue back"
When I tried this on my W I was scared Sh!tless. I said "Honey. I think we could work this out;but perhaps you are right. Maybe too much damage has been done. I was not very good to you"
Her response "It wasn't all you H I made mistakes too. I just feel like I need to do this as some sort of closure. I don't know if that makes sense. I am not saying I never want to talk to you again I just feel we should only talk if necessary"
That was almost three weeks ago. You have followed my thread. How is the not talking working out for me?