It seems like I grew from this experience last time and H did also but is still lagging behind.
We did fall back somewhat but it seemed but still went out for dinner, went different places together and with family. Lately my H has been feeling fatigue and complaining that he is getting old and not wanting to do to much.
The harder question is yes I kept DBing. We didn't even argue or anything. We spent alot of time together. We did talk alot on our plans for the future, etc. He said his life is boring and my son told him it's because he doesn't want to do anything.
Before this happened this time he would come home from work, we would eat dinner and he would watch the news and nap on the couch. We would watch TV together and then go to bed.
As far as GALing, I went with friends and family to do things he didn't want to do. Pretty much we would do things together.
