Without evidence to point to something...nefarious:

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It's just frustrating not knowing what my W is thinking and doing?


Why assume the worst?


You're picking the worst of the few assumptions you allow yourself to make.

In some way it's paranoid defense. If you assume the worst you can't be as hurt as if you assumed the best and are wrong.

But by assuming the worst, its affecting you, you're already prickly and standoffish when you do interact with her.

With no evidence, you're sabotaging yourself and your efforts.

You.

FOBD's post is awesome. Awesome enough to print up to re-read when your feeling down.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet