Just caught up on the thread! Denver don't beat up on yourself (me calling the kettle huh?) Anyways, your making progress...that's ALL we really want. Right????
FOBD and 2STEP you guys are both spot on! Denver, your pros/cons list made me cry through the whole thing!!! You are the better MAN my friend!!!
I'm proud of you and how your moving forward through such a rotten and tough chapter of your life! But, your doing it everyday...because you love your W and family...That's why you are the better MAN!
I know the not knowing where they live kills you. I don't know where my H lives now. I heard through a cousin... He was living w/a friend. But, friend got married so he moved out yesterday? That he is suppose to stay w/Grandma for a few weeks then moving in w/someone????
That makes me crazy too, I'm in the boat with you on that one! But, she is still reaching out to you in her own way....Keep going Denver...
Prayers Always!
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010