DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[ScaredinCanada]

Thank Grr and Denver, ya I hear both of you. I'm planning to shower up and shave(been shoveling for a total of about 4 hours today) do my hair, smell good, and act like I've had a fantastic time without her (I did have fun with D6, but I'd still be lying if I said I didn't miss my W). I'll sell it big time, and nicely ask how things went for her, D2 and D5.

I've also finished tiddying the house, cleaned the bathrooms, and arranging the living room and kitchen. Things look good, she shouldn't feel overwelmmed when she gets home. I think I'll even make the girls lunches now.

I'm sure she'll be excited to talk about the fun they had without me. (keep the acting like it's actually better when I'm not around). I'll do my best to listen and take it in without showing any resentment. Bottom line is we never did this in the past - we would have ALL gone as a family.

I hope they had fun...but I REALLY hope she missed me - even just a little bit!