my heart breaks. If he really did get a place in Dec. why hasn't he gone there or taken his things? Am I being used for housekeeping and meals? I am so frustrated with him. He hang out all weekend and then I go upstairs to bed and he stays on the couch and the story repetes day after day.
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
VS - Keep yourself in check. Revenge and plotting iwll only justify your husband to leave you.
Do you have The Divorce Remedy book?
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
do not do that! what will the outcome be?? it will do nothing but make your husband angry it will also give him an excuse to sympathize with her and you will look like the "bad guy"
good points...Thanks for talking me off that cliff. I feel that we are doing so good. yet he stops and walls go up if I act like I want to become physical. All he has to do is sense it and it is over...yet one of his concers is that we never held hands ect....I don't get it
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
understand that he is uncomfortable with being physical right now don't pressure him don't even make an attempt it will push him away you HAVE to stop yourself from doing these things it's hard, but it's what you need to do right now
My H just sent me a text that he arrived in TX and would let me know when his flight lands in PA. Should I text him in a few hours "good night" or just wait out the long night alone. I know this seems so stupid...but I am really angry at him and the OW. The good news...before, when I was in denial...he was gone every weekend with friends. Since 12/28/10 he has been with me....very distant. I am consumed with the 2 of them talking when I'm not "watching or listening"
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
