I would suggest re-reading the MLC Chapter in DR. Keep in my mind that MLC'ers are in an experimental phase and that may include experimenting in a new relationship. Behind the facade of happiness, remember they are really very unhappy people for some reason. Thus the blame on others. They will wake up one day and have to be accountable for their part.

Having said all that, I would suggsst that you re-read Michele's Chapter on Infidelity as well.

Perhaps everyone does have their breaking point. And 2S, I'm not 100% convinced yet that you would choose #2.

Keep up YOUR work Denver; look how far you've come!


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11