Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[ScaredinCanada]

I have to be honest, I don't think the WAS cares at all about their vows. They are at a different place in their life, and like my W says "People do get divored!".

They wouldn't think of their vows anyways because it doesn't support their position. At one point my W said, "It's not like we wrote our own vows, they were just someone else's words that we repeated..."

I always laugh at the fact that my W can think about the last 15 years and somehow she can only think of "how bad it's been" and how "we were never meant to be together, we both just settled".

We'll be fine no matter what happens, and I do truly hope they come to regret what they are doing - but my fear is that will take a long time, much after the R is dead.

W just called and said they are just hitting the road, they should be home around 6 or 7. I guess at least she's calling to tell me.

LIS, Dixie, Denver, 2Step, we'll get through this and eventually better for having survived!