I've been reading your threads and know you are really struggling. Having H at home, at times, appears to be more difficult than when they were the WAS, doesn't it?
I spoke with keepmvn4wrd. I am 1 1/2 yrs. post bomb now and I am finally at the point where I am ready to either call it quits or take keepmvn4wrd's advice. I am choosing the advice before I make known I have no more rope to hold on to.
Cutting to the chase: What I see/read is that you REALLY need to DETATCH. H needs to miss you or feel like he might lose you. H needs to go thru the same growth you have gone thru. You need to not let H's attitude/actions negatively influence you so much. Easy for me to say, right?
I really want you to feel better. Keep venting here. I do believe you would feel better if you went back to detatching and let your H persue you.
