Quick Question: A couple of times this week, my wife has, in passing, said that she wishes she remembered to do her laundry over the weekend, She has to wash her own hospital scrubs, and on Monday she only wore her whitecoat. Then these past two days, she's been wearing her school-provided scrubs. Finally my question to y'all is: Should I just help her do her load of laundry?

If you're thinking possible brownie points, well, bear in mind that before all this went down, I was the main laundry person at home. Since I was kicked out of the master bedroom, I only do our son's and mine. So would it matter if I did it for her now or not?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
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