My opinion is that you are not ready to be dating yet. You are in that desperate, needy and "someone please validate me" place where we have all been. Seriously, would you have ever put up with the kind of crap she's doing to you in your younger years? I doubt it. You shouldn't have to set a boundary, she should have enough class and respect for you to not even talk on the phone when you are together!
How long have you spent by yourself just getting to know yourself again? I mean with no emotional drama from a new female? The odds of a rebound lasting are not in your favor, btw.
I agree 150% with Barb. If you feel you deserve better, choose better. Otherwise, be happy with your choices.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
