My mission tonight, enjoy kids and maybe watch a movie.. who knows maybe burn a new cd for the car.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Well tonight took son to store looking for an XBOX thing, did not have it, I hate Germany sometimes. Came home has tacos with family and now I came up here to release some stress. I need to type to vent and then go back to the room! Be back in a few..
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
We had marriage counseling this morning and it was decent. Very honest on both sides. Wife pretty much admitted that she sees my changes and wants to believe them but she has been burned so many times, she just cannot trust that I have FINALLY changed. She said that she really thinks time alone will make things better. I seriously doubt that and considering she will be living in Texas while I am in Germany makes it even that much more hard to think things would work out. It just seems she is keeping something from me.... I really do not think she is cheating or anything but she is not giving me all she has in her head.
HELP
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Today has gone well at work for me, been busy all day and that certainly makes things easier. I am going to go home enjoy some tuna casserole and watch a movie.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
You have 4 months. That is like 4 years in marriage years. Hang tight and stay the course. No everyone will be a success but I believe you have one of the better chances.
2stepboogie.. I truly appreciate your positive vibe and honest comments.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Well last night went ok, just chilled on the couch together, watched Scott Pilgrim movie, pretty funny movie then we both crashed around 1130. I fell asleep in like record time. exhausted. This morning was ok, not much conversation on the drive to work, but we both are not too much of morning people anyway.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
I just overheard my wife tell a friend of hers on phone that she told an high school friend that when she moves to Texas she wants to meet his family. When he replied, no way your coming to Texas. Wife replied, yeah I am leaving my husband! All on Facebook.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Now I just reverted back to fear and almost hysterical.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
wow. I hate FB. So what?! You knew she wanted to leave you agreed to it. Doesn't change a thing. You will continue to do what you set out to do for the next 4 months.
If you really think about it what did she do that surprised you? She told you she was leaving. You knew she was leaving and agreed to make the next four months the best. Now she told a friend she was leaving. Where is the surprise?
She said on FB. That part I get. You will do one of two things you will DB from now till she leaves and stick to what you said and make the next four months awesome or you will get tired of DBing and move on.
