co-dependency from either spouse is not good and not sustainable. Its probably the root of the problem in my situation.
Never depend on others to make you happy. You don't need your wife to make you happy but you want her to be happy. Accept that you have the power to make yourself happy, without another person, and you're ahead of the game. Its part of the detachment process.
I love my WAW also, but i am accepting a separation and letting her go because i wish her to find happiness. If things work out find. I hope you look at it that way too for your own well being.
