We had marriage counseling this morning and it was decent. Very honest on both sides. Wife pretty much admitted that she sees my changes and wants to believe them but she has been burned so many times, she just cannot trust that I have FINALLY changed. She said that she really thinks time alone will make things better. I seriously doubt that and considering she will be living in Texas while I am in Germany makes it even that much more hard to think things would work out. It just seems she is keeping something from me.... I really do not think she is cheating or anything but she is not giving me all she has in her head.

HELP


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out