Thank you for your post. I know how hard earned your words of wisdom are. You know how I feel and the door is always open.
Yes, my H will have to just accept that I will have his proposals checked out by a L. There are red flags that I spot and I wonder how many more there are covered by legal jargon. The man I used to know would not have even tried to pull this crap. His family WAS the most important aspect of his life.
Hang in there Punkin! I have no doubt you'll get through this in the best possible way for what it is.
Being #1 is foreign to me. Once I meet with the L today hopefully it it will feel less that way. If the L validates that what H is doing is not fair, I will do what I can to remedy that.
