Tadpole sorry you are here. In my opinion, and I am NO expert on anything except surviving. lol It seems like when we hit our 40's, women anyway, we think about getting older and it saddens us. Women are pressured this day and time to look thin and beautiful. Just my opinion. Your wife prb. wasnt thinking of leaving until this guy made her feel young again and she realized HEY I still got it. It is a High, and a big High when someone flirts with you and makes you feel beautiful. When we are married for many years we tend to take advantage of each other. The compliments are few and far between and marriage itst as exciting anymore. We have obligations. This guy has given your wife an escape for the time being. She is confused, as was mine. DONT pressure her. DO Listen to everything J3B and some others tell you to do. I DIDNT and it got me nowhere. You will be ok. Give her space and just listen. You dont have to believe everything she say because they LIE and LIE and LIE!
