Huge progress tonite. A friend of mines brother confronted the man that I suspected to be persuing my wife. I didn't ask for this to happen but it did. Everything was aired out and I am in the clear. No AFFAIR. Wife and I had a long talk and all concerns were ironed out. I haven't felt this good in weeks. She is still going to move out, but I am confident she is doing it for the reasons she told me, not to start a new relationship. I have come to terms with a separation, and perhaps it is the best thing for her. Her and I both gained a huge amount of trust for each other. We were able to communicate without any anger or frustration. No ones feelings were intenionally hurt. No red faces, no raised voices. Rational thinking. She actually understood why I had concerns. I can work on me without having to worry about a 3rd party. What a relief. baby steps, maybe even in the right direction!
