2step,
I agree, mail them back. Show her that you are a man of your word and that you can be the person she would like you to be. As all has stated here, the papers are not execution orders from the governor. Heck, I have an aunt and uncle who have formally divorced and remarried twice. Probably not the best example as they are both crazy as sh*t, but I think you get the point.

By the way, your comment about me punching my computer made me spit out what I was drinking in laughter!!!

Keep us posted!

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...