Lol - Suzy - lights off! Brilliant! Why on earth didn't I think of that before????
And he was fine with it, so it wasn't an issue. Like I said, I kept wondering what his motive was, but after a while I stopped worrying about it. And it was a nice little boost for the ego!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn