Originally Posted By: what next?
That's the same thing I told my wife. Everyday during our marriage I told her that I loved her and there was nothing that I wouldn't do for her.

When this started I knew that if I couldn't do this my words were hollow. I never thought that letting her go would be what she would need and I'm more scared than ever that it will end up being what she really does want. But it's what I have to do to show her that I'm sincere.


Actually Next, you hit the nail on the head. Would we do ANYTHING for our W's? Do we love them only when they love us back? Or... do we have unconditional love for our Ws?

If we have true unconditional love for our Ws, we choose to let them go, let them try to find the happiness that they are missing... even if it is not with us.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce