Last time I checked you go to church for you and not for someone else. It's YOUR faith not his.
Doing things for yourself without worrying if your spouse is going to get upset is the first step towards reclaiming your life. Besides, if you believe in God, the only one whose opinion that matters is the Big Guy upstairs.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.