Quote: What do you have to lose by putting out the ultimatum - change or it's over? the possibility of natural change occuring? ulitimatums don't work for me imp, I don't yet have the cahona's to follow through...there's still a glimmer of hope I hold and I can't give a true ultimatum til that glimmer is gone.
Can you see the oxymoronic nature of that post. Once the glimmer is gone, it is too late. I have seen that before too. Sometimes, you have to take the bull by the horns before it is too late.
