I hope so Sandi. I am especially paranoid tonight about OM. I am beginning to lose my ability to put the possible R bw my W and OM out of my mind. Not sure what is happening. Why was I better off emotionally last week, before hanging out with W, than I am now?

I can answer that! I was somewhat detached before... now, not so much.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce