I am glad your first session went well. After 4 sessions I finally just asked my DB coach "Ok so don't spare my feelings, spare my wallet after all the information you have do you think there is actually any hope for us." her response "absolutely I am convinced of it" So I came back with "OK but really. How many times do you get asked that question and your answer is "no. you're screwed" She laughed and said "I have told people that their situation seems very difficult and it will be hard but in your case I see a lot of hope" That was good enough for 3 more sessions.
I think when we are here in this position we look for any sign of hope we can hold on to but maybe that is a mistake we make. Maybe what we need to do is just live and do and let the chips fall where they may. Of course I say that and in a few hours I will be posting how hopeless and scared I am, but right now I am having one of my very few moments of lucidness.
The DB couch will get a lot of info and then give you some guidelines based on your case.
