I agree with Lost. Too aggressive. Remember, your W is the one that has the problem, not you. So I wouldn't do things that could be construed as you being the one that wants out. All that will do is validate her feelings of wanting out of the M.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce