In a state of anger people say and do things that they regret. I believe the WAS says things not only because they mean it at the time but also to justify their actions. My W told me "I was just 19 when we started dating. I jump in with both feet. I need to find myself"
She is now 29. The anger will last only so long and when it subsides they will see the reality. Some will have convince themselves they did the right thing but I really feel for the ones that feel like they made a mistake
