Good morning Virginia. I am emailing you to see if I can get my account restored so that my posts are allowed to show up immediately after I submit them.
I know that I screwed up by violating one of the board policies 2 weeks ago, but it won't happen again.
I appreciate your help with this.
Thanks - Denver_2010
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Dbmod - Do you have any idea if my account will ever be reverted back to how it was before it was sent to purgatory? Just wondering if you even know if Virginia has gotten my emails or messages?
Can I get a little love for my posts tonight? I could really use some advice and feedback.
Thank you.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I don't know. But you don't have to ask me to approve posts. I check and approve whenever I can...and try to do so in the order in which they are received. I noticed some of your posts are 'bumps'. I think this backfires when you are on full moderation, sets the threads back.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I hate to say it, but I am having the same troubles as Denver. If in fact dbmod is the only person out there to approve posts, I can see how that can be pretty overwhelming. Sorry, dbmod.
It seems as though my posts are taking 24-48 hours to be approved and posted. By the time they do post, they are at least a few pages deep. This has been very frustrating, as I have only been able to give bits of my story every few days with little response. I am not sure if my case is an exception. Many other posts have hundreds of views and replies.
I am unable to send personal messages to the moderators or admins to ask for assistance.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
More good news... Denver's long national nightmare is over! The purgatory is over! My posts show immediately again...
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce