Yes, Onestep, you are right and I am trying. I signed up for a meetup group two weeks ago, but they haven't had a meetup yet. The group is for those separating or divorcing. So hopefully there is a meetup soon.

I gotta think of more things like you said. It's hard when you are shy. I think that's why I love this place so much because we're still hidden.

Oh, and my H, other than his one trip is home more than I am right now. I think 2Step gave me the advice early on, but I was told to get out of the house even if I am going to the movies by myself. So that's what I do. I leave the house, but it's depressing because I don't have enough to do like you said. Ok, next goal...


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11