My problem is that I had a lot of good contact with W this weekend, now I'm back to wondering what the hell is going on and not knowing what I should do. Any detachment that I had achieved is gone. I am, again, completely attached.
What you described is an incredibly hard thing to do.
You almost have to have two different frames of mind and a switch between the two.
Enjoy the good moments, truly enjoy them.
When the BS hits slip back into your armor.
I know this is Bolt's thread. But what did she do, or what happened to make you start wondering again? Or is it on your thread?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Thanks Bolt and grr. There are just days, like today, that I just wish that this hellish situation would just end... one way or the other.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
My W's big problem with me is that she never felt that she was enough or did enough for me. When the reality was, she did exactly what I needed; I was just too selfish to realize that.
