DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[Denver_2010]

denver and canada
can you explain to me "believe zero of what they say"
i don't understand this concept
hope you are both ok

grr - I think that it simply means that the WAS in somewhat crazy and will say anything and everything that validates what they are doing.

"I'm not in love with you"
"we should never have gotten M'd"
"I can't make you happy"
"We're opposites"

etc., etc., etc.,

Then there is also the lines that come along when OP is involved...

"we're just friends"
"I'm not attracted to him/her"
"He/she is like a brother/sister to me"

etc., etc., etc.,

Then there's the lines that they say when they say in an attempt to convince you that they are ok and the M is just over...

"I want a D"
"I want a LS"
"You need to move on"
"I don't miss you"
"Nothing lasts forever" - which generally comes with the nonchalant sigh

etc. etc., etc.,

Point is, WAS is NOT going to tell us how they are actually feeling. Why would they? They don't want to be with us. They have shut us out.

Hope that helps.

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Denver