After all, if I choose to accept one of these young guys, it would obviously just be with the intention of a fling on my part too. I'm not saying I'm going to - but I think I am starting to understand it a little. I'm at a point in my life where I could appreciate the fun in a little sexual fling - and they, or course, are at a point in their lives where that's all they want!
I've experienced it too. I had a fling with a 27 year old last summer. At the time all I could do was wonder why?! But I certainly didn't ask. He was in my town for about a month for his job and probably wanted a no drama fling and figured an older woman was better than a younger one who would want a real relationship. I took it for what it was......a lot of fun with an expiration date. I could never have had a real relationship with him, he was only 5 years older than my oldest child! LOL (Which did weird me out a little.) He didn't want anything from me, just to have fun together.....and it was definitely fun!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
