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he has my car today and the kids aren't feeling well so instead of me just taking the truck and the kids to do the food shopping I called and asked if he would be home in time for me to go food shopping with my car and possibly without the kids...sure!

huh? no, well I have to do this or that first when I get home...no well can you feed them first...no as long as you get back in time to put dd to bed...no nothing just sure I should be home by 4....



LL




So...is asking directly and clearly for what you want (not sweeping life changes but "I need to do xyz today and need this help from you") different than what you usually do?

Sage


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