I guess I just look at it as another avenue of meeting people I wouldn't normally meet. The guy I am dating now I met on Match.. he said the women are worse... he said on Friday's the inbox fills up and women are looking for a hookup or insta husband. I have had other guys who are one match confirm this to be quite common. Wanting to move in together with in months of meeting etc... The nice ones are out there you just have to be patient. The guy I am seeing right now.... is not my typical body type of man I have ever dated... just never have and after a few dates I had to ask myself if that was going to be an issue... well everything else is so great... so what if he is a few inches shorter than what i have always dated... he is taller than me so that's good enough. I would have missed a great opportunity if I had dismissed this man because of that. I try to not judge a book by it's cover and I mean that.
Heck even the EXH tells me, women your age are crazy out there!
My guy said he was surprised how quick the women "take it to the gutter'... and that said ,....he's no prude.
But that's not what he is looking for.
I have found from talking to young men in the club during a conversation I was having with a young army captain who had just returned from the war.... that most girls their age aren't thinking and talking. They are involved in jersey shore/ kardashian stuff... (not all of them) it seems the majority of younger girls are just not substantial.. which is fine for a lay but not relationship worthy. After I established that I was way to old for him and he got that ... we had a drink together and some lovely conversation about things. As I was leaving, he looked me in the eye and told me he wished more women his age had more substance to them and that he enjoyed talking with me very much. I think that may be a 'turn on' that they are not used to as much. I am not bashing younger women as i know plenty of articulate smart ones but I think those ladies are either snapped up or few and far between.
BA~ My guy said after a few 1st dates he considered getting a tape recorder for those type of women and pushing play then coming back later to see if they had any questions... he said those dates got boring and turned him off as well. They all had the same 20 questions. I don't think I ask him any of those during our first date. I just thought that was funny!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
