how I treat him and how I'd like to treat him are two different things..and I've treated him both how I'd like to be treated and how he likes to be treated (with the exception of asking for what I want)..
I've done it all...
just becuase I come here and piss and moan doesn't mean I do any of it here...infact h is often shocked as hell and wonders where the heck that came from when we do have a "conversation" about us and how I feel...
I smile when he comes home... I show interest and support in his work I listen to him complain about work (let's not forget I am not allowed to complain about the kids driving me nuts cause wao..watch out h and other's will throw it back at me at another time so I have to stay positive all the time) I cook for him clean for him do his laundry for him..
I could really go on all day but I'm not going to...there is nothing that I can do to elicite change in him cept for get pissed and fight with him..then he'll do a bit of a dance and I think things are turning around but nope their not...
here's an example...now last night we argued and there was no making up....
he has my car today and the kids aren't feeling well so instead of me just taking the truck and the kids to do the food shopping I called and asked if he would be home in time for me to go food shopping with my car and possibly without the kids...sure!
huh? no, well I have to do this or that first when I get home...no well can you feed them first...no as long as you get back in time to put dd to bed...no nothing just sure I should be home by 4....
