my h and son gave me necklace

[rysmom]

If they ever do?

[sgctxok]

I love Tony Robbins. I read his stuff before Michele's -- she referenced him, and then I read DB. (I read the references first.)

Go you! You're pretty! Pretty is good. Laurie has great advice. Call him and ask about him. Just give it a try. Just do it when you aren't emotional. If you get emotional, hide it. Then vent here.

[sgctxok]

Ask his opinion about something, like the car, and then ask how he's doing and compliment him. A real one, one that he really liked back in the day. Then get off right away. Don't linger too long.

[sgctxok]

Only do this when you are strong and have your game on.

[rysmom]

sounds good i dont know why but im afraid to call him. i have so much anger how he is living,it just seems unreal how there is no guilt. i could never do that to my family.

[rysmom]

My h gave my son greens and grains to give to me today. H took my son to his house, son said ow wasn't there. I went and played tennis tonight, with my friend, and 2 other guys, it was fun.

[rysmom]

I went to my doctor today and he told me my h was there yesterday. He wouldnt tell me the reason though. Dr also said my MIL was there the other day, and she is not doing good, she has congestive heart failure, and her blood sugar is not good. Its funny because i called dr. yesterday for appt. but receptionist said they didnt have any appt. Im glad i didnt go yesterday and see my h there. God works in mysterious ways. My doctor is a very religious man,and we ofter talk to each other about our faith and my situation. He said why dont you 2 work things out and i said because he is living with the ow. He said "oh that's right". Dr said h got a new tatoo with my son's name on it.

[sgctxok]

Hi rys,

Only have a minute, but wanted to check in with you--
My doctor when I was getting divorced was great, too. He called me in to tell me to protect myself from my H. (My exH threatened me to our doctor and to his psychologist, who also called me in to say the same thing.)

I'm sorry your MIL isn't doing well, that's hard on you when you are separated from your H.

I'm so proud of you for going out getting exercise and fun! I do not have the hand/eye coordination for tennis. I don't mind practicing with my daughter, but I can't play a game. I have started training for a half marathon in May, going to go run shortly.

I'd like to destination halfs (I never want to do a whole marathon)--use my later years for G and I to travel to different cities twice a year or so for a half marathon, then see the city, hang out.

[rysmom]

That's great that you are training for half marathon. I never did a marathon, i ran in a 5k once. is G your male friend? Do you work at a pharmacy?
My son went out with h for work today. I like when he goes out with him without ow. Im going to go to the monastery today and also to see "The Rite" , Anthony Hopkins is in it, he is one of my favorite actors.
Hope you have a nice day, thanks for reply.

[MrBond]

"This ow is outgoing, and charismatic. I can't compete with that part of her, that's not me."

why not? It's her charisma and boldness that he enjoys. YOu say that you're now afraid to contact him. You are still wrapped in fear. Have you talked to your C about that?