I swear, you crack me up. LOVE THE DOG HOUSE STORY.

Yeah, I was kind of wondering if you had the same experience with the spouse not thinking it through. I'm type-A all the way. If I were truly planning on leaving, I would definitely have my ducks in a row. But that's me and not him.

I haven't asked once about him moving other than the first day. He turned warm to me after his meltdown and my complete lack of reaction to it. But then he's turning cold again. Strange thing is all of his covert actions (which weren't really all that covert because for a smart guy he's pretty stupid) have all but ceased. He's not really texting uncontrollably, he's not on the computer at night and then erasing history, he's not taking phone calls outside, etc. So to be honest, not sure what to make of any of it. Someone really needs to send a psychiatrist over to my house and examine this specimen.

I guess part of him is waiting for me to go look for him out in the dog house. The question then becomes do they come back in the house when we don't go out there?


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11