the funny part about that is, he spoke to my mom and knows i was at my son's school meeting nothing to worry about there...ha denver, i cannot respond,, as he has no cel service on the island his message said he would call back anyway tonight to speak to son should i not speak to him when he calls? canada - i think it's great that you recognize what you could have done and are now acting on it and you are right i know him he away alot and most of the time he does call - i just thought it odd with our separation, that he would leave 2 messages on my machine again, i am just searching for the positive i think my bottom line and what i need to remind myself of is that he said he is no longer in love with me blah!