Yes!!!! I feel so empowered with the weightlifting. It's kind of awesome to see my progression and know, "I did this!"
Are you still talking about the logistics of your separation or did that talk stop?
Did she have a plan when she started talking separation? My H did not. I asked a few questions and all I got was, "I don't know, I didn't think about that." Of course, this was after I nicely told him that I thought it was a good idea. I think I rendered him speechless after that.
I'm so glad that you have a friend with you to go through this. That is irreplacable. I've cut off all relationship talk with anyone who talks to him (which is just about everyone). I don't want him to have the first clue what I'm up to. I don't think he knows what to do with that either.
I need to find more things to keep me busy on the weekends like you. I kind of need to get over the shyness and get out there. Unfortunately, I don't have the stamina to do 8 hours at the gym
