Quote: I've asked directly for what I want (and it's not much)I've explained how it makes me feel that he seems to not care enough to meet some of my needs in the r.
That is something that my ex never did. You have done well in that respect and deserve credit. And I like that you say some, not all, of your needs.
As for you being a miserable person, I don't see that at all. You seems to have a fun gene. I know you to be capable of intelligent conversation. And you do have fire in your belly. I like that.
Maybe, next time he says call a lawyer, say ok if that is how you feel. Then totally eschew any advance he makes towards you. Then when he tries to say something, you may say hey, if your attitude towards me and this marriage is so cavalier then I guess there is nothing left to do than to end this marriage and let the chips fall where they may. Then just go about your business and give him nothing.
As for your garbled message, I know the kids are there.
LL, you are a good woman - bright, attractive and fun. Get the best life that you can have.
